Taste vs "healthy"

My wife and I could be featured in a nursery rhyme- I’m like Jack Sprat, who could eat no fat and my wife can eat no lean. I trim fat off my steaks and I try not to lose meat, but I can’t abide a mouth full of fat. My wife’s plate, however, has no trimming gs on it whatsoever which means she’s eaten all the parts I would have trimmed off!